Age 24, 2015
Walking back to my family’s table with drinks from the bar on a very busy and crowded night, my hands full of drinks and a band playing loudly. While most people in the bar queue parted to let me through as we all do, one guy grabbed my vulva with his whole fist and squeezed it. It was so quick and I was so shocked I did nothing but walk away really quickly and have felt so angry and shit about it and how I handled it for 20 years now. I think about it all the time and wished I did something.